单身贵族可不是逃兵集中营

传说中的单身戒,厄...Made in China吧?!-.-

　　昨个一下午都和同事晃悠在中山公园的玫瑰坊,美其名曰工作,实则是跑来见识下开办在上海的李伟菘音乐学校.在等待韩老板的时候,校长张女士很随和的与我们扯起了工作与家常,其中有一点我很好奇: 公司中无论男女与大小,除了她已结婚并育有孩子以外,其他人都是清一色的单身...张女士还很大方的举例,在这里教授舞蹈的亲弟弟便是如此,厄...据说要求奇高,挑肥拣瘦之余还脾气乖戾.言及弟弟,一脸精明能干的张女士面露些许无奈.

　　所谓单身贵族我并不羡慕,在我眼里这是一个乐于享受生活,不愿意被婚姻牵绊住人生脚步的群体,单身着,可以做很多乐意的事情,无拘无束.朋友中的90后萝莉控SAM便是如此,开开心心和老妈在杭州过着小日子,都30+的人了,心态年轻的一塌糊涂...除了没有小家庭,她的生活充满着五彩缤纷,绚烂异常.

　　我想,除了无束缚的去享受生活而单身之外肯定还有很多原因造成了单身贵族数量猛涨,不管如何,做这样的决定之前,首先得认清一点,自己是否能承担起对自己的责任. 假设回答是肯定的,你爱干嘛就干嘛,真正的单身贵族无论以什么方式活着都可以很精彩; 回答是否定的,你无论选择什么生活方式都会有不少困扰,单身只是一时的避风港而已.和几位友人谈天,似乎都有着惧怕婚姻的胆怯之情,或责任,或爱情,或生活,惧怕婚姻带来的各种变化. 逃避这一切而加入单身贵族行列的行为越来越受年轻人青睐,思前想后...其中相当部分人说到底根本只是逃兵而已.

　　充满恐惧感的还包括丁克一族中的一部分,昔日朋友里就有,因为已绝交,不说了.

　　这个话题可大可小,大家任意发挥吧.

另: 对李伟菘不了解的朋友,请查阅中文维基: 这里. 最近解封,无论如何都要用一下的,对吧~

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ddkk3000 said in 2008.08.05 13:37:

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不会吧，竟然做到了沙发？

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ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 13:41:
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我完了我，竟然真的是沙发，大家不要坐在我身上啊，我这里有很多尸凳，做到那去，舒服，真正人皮人油的，温暖凉爽舒适。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:01:
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据说你长了啥啥啥的你在老E那里自己说的...慌!

Dickey reply in 2008.08.05 20:27:
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这位仁兄应该会被 Yacca 严重关注的，两天内评论己有 56 条！

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:04:
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我是关注了还和风暴兄书信来往了好久

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 20:53:
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我对yacca上瘾了……yacca小姐你说怎么办？

homer reply in 2008.08.06 14:35:
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人家yacca明明不是小姐。。。
小姐这个词汇不好。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 21:19:
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卖身不卖艺就好听了?!

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 22:06:
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“据说你长了啥啥啥的你在老E那里自己说的...慌!”
哎，俗话说，不怕下雨，就怕淋病了啊。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:18:
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地球不安全我回火星了...
ddkk3000 said in 2008.08.05 13:44:

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这是讨论单身贵族的么？这讨论话题太优雅太小资，不好讨论，讨论剩女更好。

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:01:
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剩女就变成单身男的话题了...

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 22:05:
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不会的。

!CnSoLoer reply in 2008.08.06 2:31:
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女们？你们在哪里

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:25:
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在广阔的地球上...n多剩女. 谁先找到就归谁.
disinfeqt said in 2008.08.05 14:46:

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讲的什么...搞不懂那个单身戒不错的说在哪见过貌似100元以下？

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ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 17:56:
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这个戒指拿来补衣服都不行，塑料的容易扎破，顺带会扎手。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:11:
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原来你还会针线活...难得啊一手的人还可以做这么细腻的事情.

GooMoo reply in 2008.08.05 20:05:
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RMB300多这个单身戒，虽然它可能只值100多或更低，我想买一个，谁有？

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:05:
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中国难道没山寨它么?!?!?!不可能吧...

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:02:
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made in china的话肯定不需要...

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 22:07:
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如果到国外去买made in china ,designed in XX的话，300多都不够。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:17:
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出口转内销的都不止300呢价格立马上一档次.

GooMoo reply in 2008.08.06 11:49:
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我看了，从这边网上购，折合RMB450多块了。不知道哪里有没有优惠？谁知道？？

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:44:
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好贵好贵...比预期的贵很多...-.-
PS 我不知道...
于小鱼 said in 2008.08.05 16:20:

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希望有一天能够结束单身生活的人飘过。

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ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 17:57:
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希望有一天能够戒掉yacca瘾的我华丽的摔过。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:11:
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希望你瘾头小点就好了,千万别戒!

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:16:
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肯定可以的,少看几部电影多出去涉猎下...哈哈
朵小朵 said in 2008.08.05 16:46:

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希望有一天能够结束糟糕爱情的我飘过。

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:12:
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小囡,你现在很糟糕么?

!CnSoLoer reply in 2008.08.06 2:32:
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糟了好啊，只有更糟才能看到更美好
etian007 said in 2008.08.05 17:07:

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好像以前在瘾科技见到一个结婚纪念日戒指!

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:12:
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瘾科技...厄很久没去看过新闻了...
行者自若 said in 2008.08.05 18:02:

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单身的举手……偶举手~

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ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 19:03:
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我不仅单身，我还残疾，只有一只腿一只手一个脑袋。

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:07:
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这已经不是残疾的范畴了...

只剩下一半的您,原先是2手2脚2头么?

GooMoo reply in 2008.08.05 20:06:
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我单身，还不是贵族！

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:05:
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做单身贵族不应该是目标而是个自然而然的事情...

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:10:
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自问自答都来了...这里好多人单身的...

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 22:19:
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我以前是她，后来变性了，万恶的社会啊，一点也不包容。

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMTA5MTI4NDg=.html

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:26:
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厄...我觉得这个视频中下面的评论第一句,很有代表性.

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 22:26:
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It's me!
http://pic.yupoo.com/jdvip/955215a88fba/medium/

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:27:
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慌张的去看GR了...

!CnSoLoer reply in 2008.08.06 2:35:
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身单啊

Ps: 靠，仨儿字还嫌少哇

“说点有用的吧这位GG/MM,别灌水哇!”

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:29:
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嗯最新限制是5个字么...也不多的~~~
晨晨 said in 2008.08.05 18:22:

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OYeah！！mADe In CHINA！！

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:09:
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无论产自何方最后总会有made in china的产品出现的...山寨何其强大不要小看啊
很实用网站 said in 2008.08.05 19:39:

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先好好享受单身生活吧！

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:06:
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昨个那校长劝我们 30岁前千万别结婚...
pigpot said in 2008.08.05 19:48:

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Yes,套用某人的一句话 Let everybody know: I was MADE IN CHINA!

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ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 20:54:
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and I am made for china!

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 20:56:
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糟了，笔误。I was born for china!

ddkk3000 reply in 2008.08.05 20:56:
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糟了，大小写错误。I was born for China!

Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:05:
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肯定的...

!CnSoLoer reply in 2008.08.06 2:39:
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啊，我就不误了，呵呵
wings said in 2008.08.05 22:00:

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每个人的生活方式不同啦~~~感情不就是爱了分分了爱，人自然也就一会单身一会不单身。

不过这个戒指其实我是蛮喜欢的，很漂亮呀~~

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.05 22:21:
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国产货,成本2毛8...

ps 虽然不至于那么低,但山寨产品肯定不贵.

wings reply in 2008.08.05 22:33:
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老板，给我来二十个单身戒指，要贵族限量版的！

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 11:18:
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么有老板么有戒指...
午后 said in 2008.08.05 22:52:

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结婚嘛，还是找个踏实过日子的，要不然在耽误彼此的青春，最后亲人变仇人

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homer reply in 2008.08.06 0:21:
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说的好哈，如同黑夜中的大火。。。照亮俺们的光棍的道路哈～

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:22:
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我其实目标不是支持单身男性...是对这个群体想不太明白.

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 11:24:
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看姜果然是老的辣
homer said in 2008.08.06 0:13:

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结婚成本过高，一人吃饱全家不饿哈！

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:20:
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成本过高...但还是每天都有n多人挤破了头去登记么...

homer reply in 2008.08.06 14:37:
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那是为了迎接北京2008～
Chada said in 2008.08.06 0:13:

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咔咔，单身。我飘～
我想嘛，以后一定要要个女儿，小女娃娃多惹人喜欢啊。

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homer reply in 2008.08.06 0:22:
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恩，这个想法很好，我们已经吃够了光棍的苦了不能让下一代继续光棍下去～

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:22:
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......那你也可以生几个女儿造福广大剩男

homer reply in 2008.08.06 14:38:
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恩我想先找到女人先～

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 21:18:
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女人...你现在开门,手一捞就捡到了.

!CnSoLoer reply in 2008.08.06 2:40:
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嗯，这个是很有道理滴

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:21:
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女娃...我有了无限想象力...

homer reply in 2008.08.06 14:38:
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想到什么地方去了呢？

Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 21:18:
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很淫邪...不告诉你
schuen said in 2008.08.06 4:42:

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单身的人真多

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 12:30:
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男女比例是其一...择偶标准的更替是更要命的...
乱序 said in 2008.08.06 14:43:

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看评论比看文章有意思
倒
我希望单身有爱就谈但绝不结婚

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.06 21:16:
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文章与评论...哪个水多还看不出来?!

不结婚的人又多了个,虽然看上去像是说说的.
不常识 said in 2008.08.15 13:31:

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单身好，结婚还生个小孩之类，就不能到处旅行了！

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Yacca reply in 2008.08.15 22:59:
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为什么结了婚就不能3P旅行?!
醉倚西风 said in 2008.09.07 7:47:

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婚姻是爱情的坟墓

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Yacca reply in 2008.09.07 20:51:
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因人而异...未必的